Good day and welcome to overcoming temptations. My name is Oyisi.
Today our topic is titled “The Exit point”. Exit as you know means the way out, that is why in a building you will see a door where it is written exit, meaning that is the way out. In a relationship you must know the exit point, because if you do not exit at the right time you could be trapped and even live in regret. What do I mean, if you are friends with somebody and you begin to have emotional attachment with that person, then you know that you have reached your exit point, otherwise if you don’t exit you could fall into fornication or adultery and it will be like a dream, but it will already be too late. Let me share a story with you, there was this pastor who was happily married and there was this beautiful single sister in the church who needed spiritual encouragement, so as a pastor he counselled her, prayed with her and so on. But a time came he noticed that he liked her company and preferred her company to his wife, now that should have been the exit point, but he did not exit, so he continued and justified himself that after all he was helping her spiritually. Yes your guess is like mine, he eventually visited this is sister and they were both alone and after prayers he stayed on to chat with her, then he hugged her, then he kissed her and of course he slept with her. Very sad, if her had exited at the exit point, he will not have destroyed his testimony, so you need to know when to exit otherwise it could be sad. I heard of another case, there was this beautiful sister, and a young intelligent and handsome man was recently employed in her office and they had to work together, now this man was already married. In the beginning they were sincerely working with nothing between them, they both admired each other’s intelligence and respected one another. But it happened that something was building within them, one day they both worked late and every other person had closed from work. So they were alone together, the man just called her and without any resistance or hesitation they both started kissing, then stopped. They both decided they had made a mistake and that this should not continue, so they decided to exit. So the next day they both talked to their boss and said they could not work together again, the boss could not understand because they seem to be getting along well, but because they had reached their exit point they insisted and the boss allowed them to work in separate places. That passion between them did not come again. So in this case they made the right decision, if they had decided not to exit, it would have been a scandal.
Generally women are very sensitive, so you know when a man is interested in you, don’t flirt with him, don’t think that you can manage the situation, if the relationship is not for marriage then exit. Many ladies have decided to flirt a little then withdraw later, I don’ think is a good idea, just flee, don’t give it a chance just exit. And for men, the moment you are attracted to a lady, if it is not for marriage, don’t fool around with her exit. There is a strong chemistry between men and women, don’t underestimate it.
May the Lord give you the grace to exit in Jesus name.
